Response to Response to Safe, Sane and Consensual
The following is the link to the essay, "Safe, Sane and Consensual" by kaylee, below is my response to it.
Greetings, Mistress, Reading this particular essay at this moment seemed like a good idea. I have had some tell me that what I am doing is not safe because I don't say, "I consent to you having control over me". For me, when I kneel before a Master, I am saying that, just without words. Master "Evan" told me this and it makes a lot of sense to me, he said, "When you kneel before a Master, you are consenting to give up your consent". That really rang true for me and made a lot of sense. I do know that every time I meet someone in the lifestyle there is a risk involved, but as she pointed out in the essay and as I have said before, so is meeting someone at a bar. I always have the right to get up off of my knees, and yes, that is to say that I'm physically capable of it, but there has to be some trust involved, and if I'm not willing to give someone my trust, then I shall never learn and grow. I try not to judge people for what they like, I do encourage others to be safe about it as that is what I strive for and thus far it has suited me well. Leaning who the person is, taking the time to do research and following your gut usually can help with that. That is gut, not pussy or dick. That line can be blurred sometimes by needs and I am guilty of that myself. However, I do put safety measures in place, and you have put some in place as well. Can they fail me? Sure they can; but I could die tomorrow as well. Would the people that I associate closely with ever harm their property or even just a woman presenting herself as a slave like myself, I don't believe they would. They don't live their lives surrounded by the need to hurt women, they live their lives as strong men and women who attract women such as myself to serve them and to please them. In the beginning I often wondered why someone would put themselves at risk without having a safe word, but since I have grown to know some strong men and women it's because they are honorable and trustworthy people. They have spent time mastering themselves and know who they are and what they want. They have a desire to be surrounded by people of like minds and to spread that strength to others. Many I know don't want to degrade a woman like myself, they merely hope that she will be in tune with what her body and soul wants and be strong enough to listen to it. Most seem to want a slave to better themselves and to become stronger, not weaker. It is up to me to be careful with my future owner's property, and I take that seriously. I've stumbled and I'm sure I will again, but I try to keep in mind that someday I will hopefully belong to another and he would want me to be careful with what will become his I'm sure. I am as safe as I can be in taking risks I like to say. Will me taking the risks be worth it...I think it will be. Wishing you well, In service, ancilla  Home  Gor My life Essays Self Examination Quotes Music Resources Credits Links Email Other Stuff
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